Relationship Tuesday: Friends

Hello Fam!
This table I’m about to shake is where my pillow is!
I wish I can boast of the ability to keep friends, I guess my strength for long time friendship or “bestfriendsm” died before I finished primary school or just immediately after I started secondary school. I remember that I don’t have a best friend to show off all through my secondary school days. All through my secondary school I was more of a rebel leader, all the quiet girls liked me from afar, I was so cool with “distance friendship”.
This is because I had great skill in putting them into trouble, I was the chief noise maker, I never enjoyed sitting in front, I always have my own name for each of our subject teacher. I enjoyed making comedy out of every situation, I still wonder what killed the comedy spirit in me!
But from the beginning, it was not so………
I use to have a best friend in my primary school days, she was a quiet girl, but we fell out I think it was over money, I kept some money with her and when I needed my money, she came up with a story that her mum borrowed it, I never believed her anyway. I guess after the money incident we drifted apart, which was made easier because we did not attend the same secondary school.
We still talk once in a while………lol

The near best friend I had again was in the University…….
She is a very funny girl, never a dull moment with her, she’s a fellow trouble maker just like me.
We were a pair, until I wanted to be a “studio rat/studio beam/studio column”😩😞
I enjoyed sleeping on the drawing table more than the bed in the hostel.
She tried all she can to tell me that Architecture is not that wicked, but my stubborn self wouldn’t listen, I guess the mosquitoes in the studio must have put love portion on their lips anytime the come sucking my blood. My love for studio wouldn’t allow me see from her perspective, so we started drifting apart. We still keep contact, though. I wouldn’t let her go that easy, she’s a good girl, she made me watch football when we were best friends😎

At the end of the day, I still can say I have my fair share of “bestfriendsm”, I just can’t sustain the relationship.
I think what actually affected my skill of keeping best friend is because I have a lot of sisters, so I don’t really bother so much about best friends, we’re really close. They’ve got my back, always ready to defend and scold me when needed. My sisters are my best friend.

I am currently trying to consciously maintain my friendship with my current new friend, I will consciously nurture our friendship, I won’t back out easily like I used to do.
Friend me, hear this “If you notice me drifting away, please don’t let me go, I know I can be stubborn most times, but please don’t let me go.

I may forget to check up on you, or even forget your birthday or some important anniversaries, please bear with me,I can be so forgetful like that!
 I’m an asset ooo
Don’t let me go ooooo

Thanks Fam

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