Relationship Tuesday: I’m In A Relationship

Hello Fam!
How has your week been?
I’ve always been looking for an opportunity to announce that I’m in a relationship, it just occurred to me that I have the medium to make my announcement instead of depending on Facebook status to help me.
As you all know I’m an Architect, I realise  that I’ve always been in a “VERY SERIOUS” relationship with my work😍😍😍😍😍
The relationship is 10years old now!
My love for the work is inexplainable, I think work, Sleep work, Stay indoor to work, go to site to work, I attend meetings to work, 80% of my phone conversation is work.
If that is not a definition of relationship, please help me define relationship?
Its urgent o.

But the part that concern me most now is that work has refused to propose not to even talk of engaging me!😰😯

So, I’ve started looking “outside” so that I won’t be left heartbroken💔💔
I have invested so much into work,  years of dedication, sleeplessness and much more…….
I want to have a “sideboo” or “option B” in case my sweetheart finds a sweetheart.
Do you now understand me????

Like they always say “don’t put all your eggs in a basket, I don’t even know if my “boo” is cheating on me, (I’m team no snoop, I trust my boo 150%), but I’m not sure I want to trust him again.
Let’s just say, something is pushing me to cheat on boo “first” and see life on the other side.
But I can’t tell for now if it’s my church mind pushing me.
I just feel the urge to cheat, (even if it’s just once)…….
What if I get caught, and boo breakup with me 😥😭?
I don’t know what life has planned for me should my sweetheart decides to breakup with me….
Can’t I just bell the cat and breakup with boo?

I need your opinion, what should I do?
Should I stay faithful to my boo?
Should I dress up and get a sideboo?
Should I snoop on boo, to check how faithful my boo is.
Should i patiently wait for my sweetheart to propose to me?
Time is not waiting for me o……

I’ll be reading your comments
Thanks Fam

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