A few days ago, I was in the company of some friends “guys” and the gist just kept on flowing, and knowing me well, I always enjoy quality gist….(wink)
I asked a question in the middle of the gist, “what men really think about?” trust me I was really curious, because one of the guys I was with was in the middle of the gist, because lately he suddenly became a bit too forgetful. So I felt its a good opportunity to ask my probing question–
What do guys actually think about?
A guy friend supplied the answer, he said MONEY another guys said WOMEN.
The money gist is a story for another day, let me download the Women gist today.
In his words he said, most times when I’m thinking about women, I’m thinking about all the women
i wish i had a chance with, other times it’s the ones, I wished I didn’t blow my chances with.
As the saying goes– “there are many fish in the sea.
But over time, with each new experience, become better fishermen. We understand which qualities work for the long haul and which qualities suit cordial “one -night” things.
While beauty is not something to run away from, there are tons of non-superficial qualities found in women that are equally as arousing. If only you paid extra attention.
From this discussion, I have been able to put a list together of qualities that attracts men to women.
- SHE HAS CLEAR GOALS
Goals shows self-awareness. Setting goals show that you know you are today and who you want to be tomorrow. They also show that you’re ambitious and mature enough to define your own wants from life and yourself.
- SHE HAS CURIOSITY FOR CULTURE
Different cultures provide different experiences and ultimately life is nothing more than the sum of your experiences. So why would you want to limit and deprive yourself?
- SHE HAS INTEREST IN MUSIC
Honestly, a lady’s taste in music can tell you a lot about her. Sure, like with all things, there are exceptions- and it’s still very possible that a guy ends up with a lady with a high value for good music.
- SHE HAS STANDARDS FOR HERSELF AND HER FRIENDS
When a guy is talking to a lady, the first thing he is looking out for is to check for her standards. Her standards for herself, her standards for the people she surrounds herself with, her standards for the way other people treats her.
- SHE’S CLOSE WITH HER FAMILY
One can tell a lot about the future of your relationship with some lady by the way she treat her own family. An importance placed within, the home tells you instantly that her priorities have not become
- SHE HAS HER OWN HOBBIES
Women with hobbies are sexy, even if those hobbies are, I don’t know, dancing…..It doesn’t really matter. All hobbies comes from a place of passion and when looking for a woman to keep in your life- why not look for a passionate one.
- SHE HOLDS HER OWN CONVERSATION
Finding a lady who’s skill in bed is something of an accomplishment, but finding a lady with stellar conversational skills is much rarer. Its not that difficult for a lot of ladies to wear provocatively fitting clothes and instantly steal your attention.
