So this morning,I was gisting my sister about a chat that got me really upset, and I had started responding to the chat, the person was so calm in the reply and I was already fuming, my sister looked at me and said ”why are you upset about someone else life decisions?” 😑😦
That was when it dawn on me that my vexing no get sense especially at that time of the day and the topic of discussion.
She went on to say it is obvious you care about the person, but calm down for a while and let the words you have said sink in.
Sometimes, we are so quick to correct someone that we end up presenting our concern in a harsh manner, at the end of the day we might be right but our mode or method of presentation makes it come out all wrong and in the end.
We now start feeling bad, that we are being ignored, but if we had calmly advised, it would have done the magic.
I learnt a valuable lesson this morning.😀
